WHO'S OLD ?
Each of us possesses an image of who
older people are, how they live, and how they should act. For law enforcement
officers and many health care professionals, that image is usually not a positive
one. Because such professionals often assist older people when they are most ill,
most feeble, or when they are reacting poorly in the aftermath of a crime, they
unconsciously fail to recognize the positive aspects of aging. When they do meet
alert, productive, and healthy seniors, they mistakenly assume that they are
exceptions to the rule.
There’s no denying the negative
image most Americans have about older people, which includes older adults. As many
studies have pointed out, we have become a nation obsessed with youth. More
important, we fear old age and do everything within our power to ignore or deny the
inevitable. Perhaps the biggest shame involved with such wrongheaded thinking is
that it robs us of any possibility of enjoying the gift of longevity.
Ken Dychtwald, Ph.D, creator of an
organization called Age Wave, identified five of the greatest myths about aging in
his book, Age Wave (1989 Tarcher Books).
I've added my comments to his list:
·
People over 65 are old. (Says who?
This concept usually stems from people in their twenties. I’ve personally met 90 years
olds who would put most younger people to shame when it comes to fitness, mental
agility and work
ethics.)
·
Most older people are in poor health.
(Simply because a person might experience a diminished ability to leap tall buildings
in a single bound, or run a marathon, does not mean they are in poor health. Although
the aging process does take its toll on even the healthiest of people, this does
nothing to reduce their ability to lead a productive and healthy life.)
· Older minds are not as bright as younger
minds. (The belief that if you live long enough you’ll become senile is
just wrong, and has been proven wrong my medical science. Most instances involving
memory losses have little to do with age and involve depression, drug interactions,
lack of exercise, or other reversible conditions.)
· Older people are unproductive.
(Research has proven that older adults are more reliable, they stay with a company
much longer than younger workers, are less prone to accidents, and possess superior
judgment skills.)
. All older people are pretty much the
same. (This is so not true that it’s funny. Older adults are by far the
most diverse segment of our population. About the only thing shared between these
people is their age.)
So, you now ask, what do all these
myths have to do with crime prevention? As I noted earlier, people who lack even a
basic understanding of this particular segment of our population are often the ones
who design the senior citizen programs. As such, those well-intentioned services
are doomed to instant failure.
Soon after someone abandons the
negative images they have about older adults, they discover the benefits to be
gained by tapping into the wealth of knowledge and wisdom that exists among our
older adult population.
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